People say cats aren’t friendly, but nothing could be farther from the truth. Cats are social creatures and can be incredibly affectionate. Cats that like to cuddle aren’t limited by breed; there’s a lot that goes into a cat’s personality and comfort level with people. There are, however, some breeds that are known for their affectionate natures.

American Shorthair

American Shorthair cats are one of the most popular cat breeds in the United States. American Shorthairs are a laidback, people-oriented breed. They’re have a lot of energy and love to play, but they don’t need constant attention. They tend to get along with kids and dogs and are easy to care for, with their sturdy build and short coat.

Birman

These long-haired beauties are mellow, and they love a good lap to lounge on. They tend to bond with one person and follow that person around everywhere they go. Birmans may get jealous or chatty if they feel they aren’t getting enough attention, making them a great cat for a quiet home with someone who has a lot of love to give. Birmans can be a bit shy around strangers and take time to warm up to new people.

Siamese

Siamese cats may be best known for their unique color, but Siamese cat owners also know how loud this breed can be. They’re smart, energetic, and love to play, so it’s important that they get a lot of enrichment. As outgoing as they are, Siamese cats also love to cuddle and be held.  They’re the perfect pet for someone who has a lot of time to snuggle and play but are also happy with an equally outgoing feline friend.

Persian

These wide-eyed, squishy-faced felines are a mellow, affectionate cat breed. Persians are perfect for quiet homes or anyone who enjoys hours of snuggling. Even with their low-energy disposition, Persians still need plenty of play and mental enrichment. Because of their long, thick white coat, they also need frequent grooming.  

Burmese

This people-oriented breed is very smart, playful, and loving. Burmese cats are relatives of the Siamese and have the same vocal tendencies. They’re extremely social and known to form strong bonds with their people. This breed is well-suited to families with kids or other pets, thanks to their friendly, outgoing personality.

Tonkinese

The exceptionally affectionate Tonkinese is a blend of Siamese and Burmese cats and has many similar traits. This short-haired cat is social and smart and loves people. While playful, their favorite activity is being petted and snuggling on their person’s lap. They’re also talkative and loyal, so they are happiest in a household that has a lot of attention to give.

Maine Coon

This large, long-haired cat is a crowd favorite. The Maine Coon cat is affection, but unlike Siamese-type breeds, it has reasonable boundaries. This is a highly intelligent breed that loves to play but also loves to lounge around the house. They’re just as excited about a good play session as a good nap, so be prepared to give them both.

Ragdoll

These cuddly cats are so relaxed that when picked up, they flop around like a rag doll. Another favorite, the Ragdoll is a mellow cat who loves lap time and attention. This is a trusting breed that bonds easily with people. They’re playful and tend to enjoy the company of strangers as much as their own family.

Bombay

This little black panther of the housecat world can be both high-energy and laidback. They thrive on human companionship. Bombay cats are smart and playful, so they require consistent play and enrichment, even as they age. They’re also known to make expressive noises but aren’t loud. Their curious and affectionate nature makes them a fun companion.

Sphynx

The Sphynx is hairless, giving them a unique look. Since they don’t have a coat to keep themselves warm, they love to snuggle on a lap or hide in blankets. They’re also high energy and need plenty of play and enrichment to manage that energy. Because they don’t have a coat, they need special attention when it comes to temperature regulation and sun exposure.

What Makes an Affectionate Cat?

Every cat is capable of being affectionate, regardless of breed. Even if your cat doesn’t love to cuddle or enjoy being pet, cats do express love in a variety of ways. Socialization from a young age, adequate play and enrichment, a safe environment, and proper veterinary care are all important parts of cat ownership. Ensure that your cat’s needs are met, and that they feel loved and respected, so they can express their most affectionate side.